One the most often quoted "scriptures" is actually not even found in the Bible.
That may seem like a confusing statement, so let me explain.
I hear this statement several times a week. I see it quoted on Facebook memes. Well-meaning people pat others, who are going through gut-wrenching times, on the back and say it.
Someone, at some point, a long long time ago, in a galaxy far far away, twisted some scripture around and there birthed this now over-quoted saying. But, it is complete and total hogwash.
What is this falsehood of which I speak? Maybe you already know.
"God will never give you more than you can handle."
No where, and I repeat, no where in the Bible does it say this. Now, the Bible does speak of you never being put into a temptation without having a way out, and maybe this is the verse that got confused over time (?), but scripture does not say God won't give you more than you can handle. In fact, scripture, and life, is proof that He will.
Moses, Abraham, David, Daniel...hero after hero in the Bible, their histories show they had much more put on them than they could handle on their own.
Look at life now. Loss of children. Suicide of loved ones. Friends and family dealing with cancer. I have a dear friend who just ended a four year battle with breast cancer last Sunday. She left behind a loving husband and 3 beautiful children. Do you think these things are "more than they can handle" at times? Absolutely.
But this is the point. God doesn't want us to do this on our own. He doesn't want US to handle it. He wants us to give it all over to Him and let Him shoulder our cares and concerns. We aren't supposed to lean on our own understanding, on our own strength. God doesn't want us relying on ourselves. And by saying He won't give us more than we can handle, that is exactly what we are saying, that I can rely on me. I don't need anyone or anything else.
Life WILL throw curveballs at us that we don't understand, that we aren't prepared to handle, that are just too much. And that's okay. Sometimes we can't handle it.
But HE can. Hand it over.
God won't give you more than HE can handle. Truth.
And He can handle anything, if you let Him.